Wake up Jennifer. Fathers can be the most painful things in the world. They can hurt you in waysthat leave the most lasting, painful scars that only you can see. They can cover their eyes with their own words, blind to your pain. They can refuse to see the destruction they leave behind while thinking about how they did "good" to teach you something. They can throw salt on your wounds and call it a life lesson. They can choose to silence you with spoken blows so hard that you can't even breathe. Hoping otherwise just shows how pathetically stupid you are.